Chrome Dome...Baldy...Mister
Clean...When I was younger, my friends use to tease me about my lack
of hair—calling me names which hurt my overly sensitive feelings.
(Yes, I was a wimp back then!) They didn't mean anything by these
words and didn't know how sensitive I was about my hair loss—even
to the point I'd hide my misfortune with an obvious comb-over.
My comb-overs were so ridiculously
obvious, I wasn't fooling anyone. One day in my late 20s, I had my
oldest son Michael push me into the swimming pool. Afterwords, I cut
my hair.
Many years later, I wear my baldness
proudly. Every other day or so, I shave my head. Now in my 50s, I
finally have accepted my fate. Besides, I have the perfect head for
no hair—neither pointed or flat. Just right.
But there are times I wish I had a full
head of hair my girlfriend could put her fingers through. Few things
feel better than a scalp massage! And...when I am out in the sun
for any period of time, I need to to wear a baseball hat or risk skin
cancer like my father, another bald guy.
While I accept my baldness for the most
part, there are other men and even women who are broken up about
their thinning hair! Some conceal their balding pates by hats or
hair pieces. Some have resorted to expensive, even painful hair
treatments while others have been paralyzed by depression. Many even
refuse to develop a reasonably normal social life, fearing ridicule.
I even read about a young man who killed himself due to going bald.
I'm one of those guys who believes if
someone can't accept me for who I am—lack of hair and all, I say
forget them! I don't need their acceptance of me to define who I am!
Yet, I know I may not be the norm.
Yet, before you sink into such despair,
please contact a counselor for help. Realize there are many
wonderful people who accept a person for who they are inside. Also,
know there are many inexpensive hair restoration treatments available
to the public.
Thinning hair is not the end of the
world, my friends. Neither is going bald. However, if you need help for these issues, get the help you need. Perhaps it will give you the peace-of-mind you richly deserve.
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